(Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)
As the oldest Christian Church on Earth, there are obviously going to be a lot of questions about the Catholic Church. For every question, there is an answer…most that have come after centuries and centuries of thought and prayer by some of the greatest thinkers in the world. Check out this growing F.A.Q. information page which will help you to understand the Catholic Faith: In order to assist you we did a survey by phone and internet we have listed the most frequently and similar  asked questions. If you have any concerns and/or questions of your own Email STAILBE@aol.com.  
  1. Q… What are the Sacraments of the Catholic Church? 
  2. Q… How do I become Catholic? 
  3. Q… Where does the word Catholic come from ?
  4. Q… What are some of the differences between the Catholic and the 
    Protestant versions of the Bible?
     
  5. Q... Why do Catholics honor Mary?  
  6. Q…Why is it that Catholic priests do not marry?  
  7. Q... For a long time I’ve felt I had no place in the Church I felt a lack of sensitivity to issues and needs that I struggle with until I came to St. Ailbe Catholic Church.  
  8. Q... It was a long, long time before I went  into a Catholic Church. I left the Church feeling hurt that’s how painful that experience was. Now I have begun to wonder: Should I  have let one person’s action exclude me from God’s gift of faith? 
  9. Q… What does the Church have to offer single Catholics?
  10. Q... “I don’t know how I left the Church. There wasn’t really any one reason. Life moved on, and so did I. Where can I re-connect?”
  11. Q…..What has happened to me?  As a child I believed in God with all my heart. I have drifted away. I need as an adult  the tough and challenging messages of the gospel
  12. Q... I’m told I don’t belong.  I hear this from some people in the the Church that having an abortion makes me an outsider.
  13. Q… What's so bad about living together before marriage? 
  14. Q…I’m thinking of returning to the Church but I’m not sure where to begin. Can you help?
  15. Q... What is the importance of the Sign of Peace during the Mass?
  16. Q... Does the Catholic Church have programs for the Youth? What does St. Ailbe offer?  

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

 
  1. Q… What are the Sacraments of the Catholic Church?
    A…
    There are seven sacraments of the Catholic Church.
    Baptism:
    Confirmation: Eucharist: Penance or Reconciliation: Anointing of 
    the Sick:
    Holy Orders: Matrimony: 
                                            
    (Source: St. Ailbe Bulletin Insert 1999)

                                                                 
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  2. Q… How do I become Catholic?
    A…
    New born children become Catholic by receiving the Sacrament of Baptism.  Adults commonly receive instruction in the Catholic faith which prepares them  for receiving the Sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist. This adult instruction is called the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RICA). Arrangements and appointments can be 
    made by calling the St. Ailbe rectory 773-374-2345    
                                             
    (Source: St. Ailbe Bulletin Insert 2002)

                                                                 
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  3. Q… Where does the word Catholic come from ?  
    A…
    The term "Catholic" is in the Apostles’, Nicene, and Athanasian creeds  

    Ignatius of Antioch

    "Let no one do anything of concern to the Church without the bishop. Let that be considered a valid Eucharist which is celebrated by the bishop or by one whom he ordains [i.e., a presbyter]. Wherever the bishop appears, let the people be there; just as wherever Jesus Christ is, there is the Catholic Church" (Letter to the Smyrneans 8:2 [A.D. 110]).
     
    Cyprian of Carthage

    "They alone have remained outside [the Church] who, were they within, would have to be ejected.
    . . . There [in John 6:68–69] speaks Peter, upon whom the Church would be built, teaching in the name of the Church and showing that even if a stubborn and proud multitude withdraws because it does not wish to obey, yet the Church does not withdraw from Christ. The people joined to the priest, and the flock clinging to their shepherd in the Church. You ought to know, then, that the bishop is in the Church and the Church in the bishops; and if someone is not with the bishop, he is not in the Church. They vainly flatter themselves who creep up, not having peace with the priest of God, believing that they are secretly in communion with certain individuals. For the Church, which is one and Catholic, is not split or divided, but is indeed united and joined by the cement of priests who adhere to one another" (Letters 66[67]:8 [A.D. 253]).
     
    The Apostles’ Creed

    "I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy Catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen" (Apostles’ Creed [A.D. 360 version, the first to include the term "Catholic"]).


    Council of Nicaea I

    "But those who say: ‘There was [a time] when he [the Son] was not,’ and ‘before he was born, he was not,’ and ‘because he was made from non-existing matter, he is either of another substance or essence,’ and those who call ‘God the Son of God changeable and mutable,’ these the Catholic Church anathematizes" (Appendix to the Creed of Nicaea [A.D. 325]).

    "Concerning those who call themselves Cathari [Novatians], that is, ‘the Clean,’ if at any time they come to the Catholic Church, it has been decided by the holy and great council that, provided they receive the imposition of hands, they remain among the clergy. However, because they are accepting and following the doctrines of the Catholic and apostolic Church, it is fitting that they acknowledge this in writing before all; that is, both that they communicate with the twice married and with those who have lapsed during a persecution" (Canon 8).

    "Concerning the Paulianists who take refuge with the Catholic Church, a decree has been published that they should be fully baptized. If, however, any of these in times past have been in the clerical order, if indeed they have appeared spotless and above reproach, after being baptized, let them be ordained by the bishop of the Catholic Church" (Canon 9)
     
                                              (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  4. Q… What are some of the differences between the Catholic and the Protestant versions of the Bible?
    A   The chief difference is in the omission of seven complete books and parts of two others from the Old Testament in the Protestant versions. The books omitted are: Tobias: Judith: Wisdom:  Ecclesiasticus:  Baruch  I Macabees: II Macabees: Esther: (part) Daniel: (part) These omissions should certainly be a matter of concern and investigation. The entire Christian world accepted all of these books as the inspired Word of God until the Reformation.(16th Century)

    Reading of the Bible has always been encouraged  by the Catholic Church. The Catholic Bible far outsells all other Christian Bibles worldwide. The very first Christian Bible was produced by the Catholic Church--compiled by Catholic scholars of the 2nd and 3rd century and approved for general Christian use by the Catholic Councils of Hippo (393) and Carthage (397). The very first printed Bible was produced under the auspices of the Catholic Church--printed by the Catholic inventor of the printing press, Johannes Gutenberg. And the very first Bible with chapters and numbered verses was produced by the Catholic Church--the work of Stephen Langton, Cardinal Archbishop of Canterbury. 
                                             (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  5. Q……Why do Catholics honor Mary?  
    A….Catholics honor Mary: because she is the mother of Jesus, the Son of God. Certainly this fact alone makes her unique among all the millions of creatures of all times. We honor men and women of the world for less dignity and less important work.

    Catholics honor Mary because Mary was honored by God the Father, Who chose her as the mother of His Divine Son, and sent His angel to announce 
    this choice to her.

    Catholics honor Mary because the Son loved her as His own mother.

    The following texts of Scripture demonstrate the honor paid to Mary. 
    The sincere seeker will want to read the entire texts.
    Isa. 7:14 - Prophecy of the virgin birth. 
    Luke 1:26-28 - The Annunciation by the angel. 
    Luke 1:39-56 - The Visitation: "Blessed art thou among women...." 
    Matt. 2 :11 - Visit of the Magi. 
    Matt. 2:14-21 - Flight into Egypt. 
    Luke 2:41-50 - Loss of the child Jesus in the temple. 
    Luke 2:51, 52 - The Child went down to Nazareth and was subject to them. 
    John 2:1-11 - Marriage feast at Cana. 
    John 2:12 - She went to Carphanaum with Jesus. 
    John 19:25-28 - Foot of cross. 
    Mark 16:1-10 - At tomb. 
    Acts 1:15 - Pentecost.
                                     (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  6. Q…Why is it that Catholic priests do not marry?  
    A,,,,The Church has always considered marriage as a Sacrament and something sacred. The fact that priests do not marry is not a condemnation of marriage. The reason is that priests VOLUNTARILY give up the married state in order that they may give themselves entirely to the service of God and the care of His people. This is a disciplinary law of the Church; and the Church, for good reason, may dispense from the law. 

    St. Paul gives this as the reason in his Epistle to the Corinthians: 

    "I would have you free from care. He who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please God. Whereas, he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife; and he is divided."
    I Corinthians. 7:32, 33 

    In the Eastern Churches connected with Rome, priests are permitted to be married men provided they marry before they become deacons. The Roman Church will also allows a married Episcopal priest to convert and become a Catholic priest while remaining married. However, the Church continues to emphasize the importance of celibacy and its belief that priests can enter into Holy Orders with an undivided heart, fulfilling the sacrament as it was intended.
                                    (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  7. Q----For a long time I’ve felt I had no place in the Church I felt a lack of sensitivity to issues and needs that I struggle with until I came to St. Ailbe Catholic Church.  
    A…. Your needs are important and unique to you. St. Ailbe Catholic Church tries to address all of "God’s people concerns" through the continued works from the Ministries, Pastor, Deacon and staff,  who are always available. This is a place to bring your story, we may be able to help you find a welcoming place to encounter Christ
                                                ( From "Conversation with a friend" by JS2002)


                                                                 
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  8. Q---They say the Church has a human side. Well, the last face I saw in the Church was all-too human! I don’t know if the person responsible for my leaving the Catholic Church ever knew the damage that she did. I still remember the moments. I was insulted, hurt and I left angry.  It was a long, long time before I went  into a Catholic Church—that’s how painful that experience was. Now I have begun to wonder: Should I let one person’s action exclude me from God’s gift of faith?
    A…The humanness of the Church is real—but that cannot excuse inhumane behavior that results in alienation. If you have been on the receiving end of misunderstanding, insensitivity, or hostility from a representative of the Church—and have turned your back on the Church family because of it, here is a place to begin your “re-connection.” Welcome to St Ailbe. We cannot erase what happened to you. However,  we can offer hospitality, charity and 
    a listening ear. 

    "It's would be easy to love a Church that's perfect—if you find it on earth. If you learn to love the Church with its imperfections means you have accepted Christ's risk, to hand the Church over to human beings. Because Christ made that risk, means there will always be a challenge to love all people of the Church. All of our defects are going to be, as widely visible as our assets. 
                                                          
    ("Catholic World"  1992)

    PRAYER OF ST. FRANCIS OF ASSI
    Lord make me an instrument of Thy peace.
    Where there is hatred, let me sow love.
    Where there is injury, pardon.
    Where there is doubt, faith.
    Where there is despair, hope.
    Where there is darkness, light.
    Where there is sadness, joy.

    O Divine Master; grant 
    that I may so much seek to be consoled as to console; 
    to be understood as to understand; 
    to be loved as to love; for it is in giving that we receive, 
    it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, 
    and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

    When we don't accept Jesus' Church with its human side, we give an unrealistic and phony message to the younger generation of what the Church expects of us and what being a true Christian really means .

    Words of wisdom from an older parishioner.
    I had an uncle who refused to go to church. I remember My Grandmother saying to him, ‘Yes, you don't like Father________ so you don't go to church. You don't like the bartender either, but you go to him for a whiskey when you want one!’     

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  9. Q… Does the Church  welcome single Catholics?
    A….Yes, single people bring an abundance of gifts and resources to the Church. Single people quite often without the obligations of marriage life have more  freedom to avail themselves to the community and/or to Church 
    service. The Catholic Church has always regarded the single life as a valid 
    vocation.   Jesus provides a model of a single adult living His life outside the mainstream of both marriage and religious life. His life of solitary faithfulness reminds us that the Church needs its single Catholics as much as they need the Church.
                                       (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  10. Q----“I don’t know how I left St. Ailbe Church. There wasn’t really 
    any one reason. Life just moved on, and so did I. Career, 
    relationships, other concerns…became more important, perhaps no 
    one noticed I was gone and maybe I wished someone would have come looking for me. I have always believed in God. Lately, I feel Someone is... (Is it God’s Spirit?), calling me home to the Church? Where can I 
    re-connect?”

    A…  Life these days is filled with plenty of distractions. We are pushed and pulled in a lot of directions. At one time or another, strong commitments beckon, and we seize hold of them. In the process, we may lose our grip on important values. When our priorities shift, and older, familiar values reappear, it may be time to look again at the faith-family that once was “home.”

    Welcome to St. Ailbe. We wish to re-acquaint you with the strong roots of your Catholic faith.
     ( From "Conversation with a friend" by JS2002)

                                                         

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  11. Q…..What has happened to me?  As a child I believed in God with all my heart. I have drifted away. I need as an adult  the tough and challenging messages of the gospel. I have looked everywhere but the church. I know am still missing something. Is a stronger message being preached in the Church today?”
    A… 1 Corinthians 13: 11-13 "When I was a child, I used to talk as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; when I became a man, I put aside childish things. At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to face. At present I know partially; then I shall know fully, as I am fully known. So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

    Saint Paul professed an “adult” faith, and challenged others with the heart of Christ’s message and meaning for people. He made a clear distinction between thinking in “childish” ways and adult ways in his letters: He knew that the Spirit keeps pace with our human development and calls to us as we grow and develop. Come to Church you will now hear with adult ears. The Word will be understood and accepted in a different way. Within the Church, that Spirit needs our vigorous, challenging voices to proclaim Jesus, and for you to hear that message. Welcome to St Ailbe Catholic Church, a place to bring your heart.                                   ( From "Conversation with a friend" by JS2002)
     

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  12. Q…I’m told I don’t belong...  I  was told that having an abortion makes me a sinner and an outcast to the Church. I want to attend Church again. Can I come to Church and  begin healing without being judged?”
    Q...“I’m a male partner of a woman who had an abortion. I can no longer deny I have shared in this act. I want to deal with how this is affecting me spiritually? Can you help me do this?” 
    Q...“Someone I know and love had an abortion. I am a Christian and I have lots of confused feelings about this. I don't want to end this friendship. Can the Church  help me find a way to not cast stones or not to be so judgmental?”

    A…. No matter what has happened, you can always come back to the Church. God’s mercy and forgiveness knows no bounds. This is a place to start healing. You are welcome here at St. Ailbe Catholic Church. We want to offer you the compassion of Christ, the companionship of fellow Catholics and a path to understanding and healing. Most dioceses in the U.S. have Project Rachel, the post-abortion healing ministry. If you would like to receive a referral to the ministry in your area, contact the National Office of Post-Abortion Reconciliation & Healing at 1-800-5WE-CARE. They also have a website that your might find helpful. It is www.marquette.edu/rachel.
                                             
    ( From "Conversation with a friend" by JS2002)

                                                                       
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  13. Q… What's so bad about living together before marriage?
    A,,, Living together before marriage was almost becoming an acceptable way of life. This trend started becoming a popular  way of life...  since 1980. Long enough for numerous studies and surveys to conclude these living arrangements are dangerous for humans.

    So as  cohabitation becomes more popular, its negative effects – especially on women – are becoming more apparent. 

    Consider the following findings that research on cohabitation has discovered:: Women who live with a male  have a lower probability of being married than women who do not... People who live together outside of marriage report poorer relationship quality and more fights or violence leading to a higher mortality rate in domestic violence than their counterparts in marriages... The longer a couple lives together, the less likely it is that they will marry... People who live together before marriage are 50 to 100 percent more likely to divorce than people who don’t live together because they have established living habits that are hard to change when they become married.... There are many other startling statistics about the harmful effects of living together outside of marriage. 

    From a Catholic  and Christian perspective, living together is designed for marriage. Without the commitment of marriage it has been statistically proven that the relationship between the  two live-ins often will result in many problems: distrust, betrayal, breakups, mental and or physical abuse, crisis pregnancies and possibly abortion. These events have become the results developed from a "no committed life style and relationship".    
                                           (*University of Chicago Study/2/8/00)
                                                     
    Although it takes courage to do one thing when the rest of society is doing another, the arguments against living together outside of marriage are powerful from both a Catholic and now a sociological perspective. After going through almost 100 studies on cohabitation, performed by Ivy league colleges and Government agencies local and federal they finally concluded that the biblical plan for the family (marriage) is not an archaic dinosaur of the past; it is the very best way to live and the very best way to bring satisfaction, health, and stability to men and women who choose to live together.

    The Catholic Church is based upon a system of truth, not on the desires of society. Indeed, what makes being a Catholic difficult is the sacrifice involved to not go the way of the world. We often are forced to sacrifice what we most desire for the sake of what is good and we most often find that what is good is better and less complicated and works better for one's self and for the world. 

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  14. Q…I’m thinking of returning to the Church but I’m not sure where to begin. Can you help?
    A….If you are looking for a Church the doors of St. Ailbe are always opened. St. Ailbe Catholic Church , 9015 South Harper Avenue, Chicago, IL 60619 Welcome you.  St Ailbe mass schedule is Weekday Masses , are held in the Rectory Chapel 8:30 A.M. Services held in the Church: Weekend Masses , Saturday 7:00 P.M.,
    Sunday 8:00 A.M. and 11:00 A.M.
    If you wish to Call: 773-374-2345 or Fax: 773-374-7096 or Email STAILBE@aol.com
    If you want to learn with others, an excellent way to begin is to go through your parish’s RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) process. Contact the Pastor, Deacon or Director of Religious Education.
                                  ( From "Conversation with a friend" by JS2002)

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  15. Q... What is the importance of the sign of peace during the Mass?
    A...
    The first words Jesus said to his apostles after his Resurrection were" Pace be with you" (John 20:21). After that their feat disappeared. By offering each other the Sign of Peace at Mass we share that peace with the entire Body of Christ. 

    Jesus also told us to reconcile with one another before approaching the Altar of God (Matthew 5:23). Thus, the Sign of peace is a gesture of Reconciliation with those around us before coming to the altar to receive the Holy Communion.   (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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  16. Q... Does the Catholic Church have programs for the Youth? What does St. Ailbe offer?
    A...
    Yes, our hope for the future is in our youth. They are the Catholic Church of the 21st century. Their formation (or lack thereof) will determine how the Church of Christ will move forward (or backward) with her mission of saving souls. No work on earth could possibly be more important.  St. Ailbe Catholic Church has a Youth for Christ Ministry, Black College Catholic Tours, Praise Dancers, Young Adult Ministry and there are many activities which involve  youth participation. You can acquire information by calling  the Rectory 773-374-2345.   
                                  (Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1997)

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We live in a society that is often in opposition to Christian values. In fact society occasionally lures us from our principals without our realizing it. That happens because we lose focus and sight of what is right or wrong. Renew your faith strengthen your faith and values. Childhood religious education is not enough to guide a lifetime of adult moral judgments. Meditate on scripture, study the teachings of the church refer to the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Reflect on the Gospel readings each Sunday. Ground your decisions and actions in Jesus words and deeds. Stay close to the Holy Eucharist. This is a most personal and intimate encounter with Christ. We cannot help but be changed when we take His body and blood into our own. Refer to the Ten Commandments and the Beatitudes. You know you are on the right path if your decisions are with the spirit of these laws. Never rely on conscience and judgment alone. Prayer keeps our hearts open to God's guidance and God can do much more with an open heart.   

                                                                            (*Catholic World June 1999)

In renewing or strengthening your faith you will have many questions:
St Ailbe Catholic Church Welcomes You With An Open Heart.
  
 

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